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Why Men Have So Much Trouble Meeting Women

By: Jimmy Red

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Find me a straight man who doesn't love meeting new girls, hooking up and getting laid and I'll give you a prize. Ok, that's a lie, but the point is that it would be incredibly hard. It's primal desire to want to have the company of a woman for whatever it is that you are into. Men have picked up women for as long as the human race has existed, obviously, or you wouldn't be here. Along the way, social dynamics have shifted and influenced by many things. Specifically more recently, this includes media and Hollywood.

The amount of men that have difficulty meeting women has sky rocketed. It is sad, but true. And it's all because of the crap that is beaten into your head through these two avenues. They call this social conditioning. The way children are brought up has changed dramatically in recent centuries. Parents are now discouraged to smack their children as punishment, with some cases having even resulted in prosecutions. Instead of the face to face education children traditionally receive, they are no spending more and more time in front of the television. This means they are also exposed to all kind of media. It doesn't matter what kind of media it is, music, movies, news, they are all littered with new social standard and ideals which go against everything we have evolved from. Essentially, they are changing the expectations of women, and changing how men think they are supposed to behave.

In caveman days, the males simply had to have respect - being an alpha male - to be the object of sexual desire among women. He had no mirror to look in to worry about how he looked, and he definitely didn't have hundreds of hair and skin care options. Nowadays, humanity has become much more preoccupied with looks and other things that didn't matter back then. I admit that times of obviously changed, but this social evolution is moving much faster then the evolution of the female brain. At some base level, the hard alpha male from the caveman example is still attractive to women the world over.

Whether just meeting women for the first time, going on a first date or even after seeing a girl for a while, men's behavior has changed. In modern days, men have become very preoccupied with making sure the woman is happy. This is called giving your power away, and the single biggest mistake guys make when meeting women. When you are going out of your way so much that you lose enjoyment from it, you are effectively going to destroy your attraction in the woman's eyes. This is what movies have ingrained into our minds - that we have to be constantly trying to please women to get them. This is not the case, and unfortunately many men follow this kind of ideal. This movies were made to appeal to women ideals, but the reality is that this ideal is far from what they find attractive. This is again due to the differing speeds in social and emotional evolution.

I hope this has given you an insight into the problems men have when meeting women, and sparks up some thought. Maybe you will realize you have fallen victim to exactly what is described here, and now you will be able to do better in the future.

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