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How to Get a Girls Number

By: Melinda Curle

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Don't just stand there in a bar watching the women drink and dance. You have spotted "the One"and now you wish you knew what to do. If you don't make a move soon, she will either disappear or worse, walk out of here on the arms of someone more bold. You don’t even know her name yet, but you are already having a jealous break down. What is a poor fellow to do?

First of all, slow down on the drinking. Being approached by a sloshingly drunk man is not at all appealing, no matter how attractive he is ordinarily. You will not get a girls number when you are drunk.

Try to ditch your entourage for the moment. Would you want an entire group of your laughing friends to hear you get shot down if this goes poorly? Pop into the bathroom and have a quick peek at yourself. Slick your hair down, but avoid that cheap bathroom cologne. Finally check your breath and pop a mint if you need one. Square off your shoulder, and head out there.

Don’t just stomp over to the target girl and grunt out the first thing that pops into your mind, that is not how to get a girls number. No one is going to fall for the "did you hurt yourself when you fell out of heaven" line. Stick with the simple basics, and keep in mind that if you are in a loud bar, real conversation is going to be nearly impossible. Walk up, smile and wait for a smile in return. If she rolls her eyes as soon as you walk up, you will not be successful and your best bet is to move on. If you get a smile, that is a good sign for the next step. Stick out your hand and introduce yourself. Shake her hand gently but firmly. You do not want her to think you are treating her like she will break, but you do not want to hurt her either. Ask her name, and then use it when speaking to her. Repeating her name shows that you were paying attention and that you are interested in her as a person.

Wait for a lull in the loud music and then take your chance. Lean in, but try not to blatantly peep down her top. Ask if she would be interested in grabbing a cup of coffee or something with you sometime. If she says yes, then ask her for her phone number, but don't blow your progress by pulling out some ratty, tacky black book from your back pocket. Some people will program every number they get immediately into their cell phone, but that makes no sense. If you forget her name, she is lost among a sea of numbers. What if you never actually go out? Or worse, what if you go out and have a terrible time? It's best to save programming that number in after a successful date or two. If you don't have paper, grab a napkin and show her how resourceful you can be. Writing on your body is a little immature, but in a pinch, it will get you her number and some body contact.

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M. Curle is a dating expert. Check out free dating tips for men.

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