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Attractive Russian Women - How To Get Their Attention

By: Alex Madison

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What's the difference between an American woman and a Russian woman when it comes to dating? The Russian women is hotter, in better shape and won't reject you as quickly. She might be in your country for her job or to study, but regardless of why she is here her looks wil attract attention anytime she goes out.

Just how is she different from women you are use to? Take a look at the profiles of any woman on this dating site and you will see comments such as 'I am looking for an honest, loving, generous, tender and attractive man'. Russian women want to be romanced and are brought up with the kinight on the white horse ideals. This is what you are up against. Try and use the same pickup lines that work with typical girls and you will crash and burn fast.

Women are women all around the world and they all want to be pursued to some degree. Russian women just have loftier ideals when it comes to love. Getting her attention by by the charming, witty man she is looking for is eacy though. All you have to do is to be able to hold an interesting conversation when you first meet. If the idea of talking to a stunning women makes you panic, then here are a couple of pointers.

Remember To Listen

It is easy to start a conversation with a beautiful woman, just say hi if you don't know what else to say. But if you are going to have any chance at all of getting past that opening greeting, then you are going to have to know how to have an interesting conversation. The most important tip I can offer you here is to remember is that a conversation has two sides.

If you speak without listening, then you are lecturing.

If you speak and listen, but ignore the other side of the conversation, you are arguing.

If you speak and listen with interest what is being said, then you are having a conversation.

The first two will get you nowhere when trying to meet women. Just remember that your ears outnumber your mouth 2:1. It is a useful thought to keep in mind if you continually crash and burn with women.

The point I am trying to explain is that a conversation has 2 sides. In an average day, a woman will talking twice as much as a man so don't feel compelled to fill all of the conversation space. If a women lets you know that she is interested when you say hello (and most women won't - it is a numbers game), then keep the conversation going with open ended questions.

Ask Questions

What is an open ended question? It is a question that can not be answered with a yes or no. Have you ever walked into a store and been asked 'would you like some help'? What do you normally say? Quite of often you just want to browse around first and not feel pressured, so you answer 'no'. Or if you feel embarrassed about such a short answer, you can say 'no thanks, I am just looking'. If it is only if you are REALLY interested and came in for something specific will you give a specific answer. The salesperson brought the conversation to an end by asking you a closed ended question.

Now what happens if they say "hi, welcome to xxxx … we have some great specials on today, what are you looking for'? You can still shut down the convesation if you are not interested, but the opportunity for a bargain might mean you give a real answer back. You have not given a confirmed no, so you are one step further down the sales path. The same rules apply in talking to a woman. Ask a question to show interest and avoid the dead ends.

In dating, this is called verbal tennis. Each time she answers your question or even asks you a question, answer it and then direct the conversation back to her with another question. It takes practice to make this feel effortless, so put some work into it with a friend. Sit down and start a game where you ask a question. The other person answers the question and then asks a related question. The first person who can't think of a question loses.

Now here is a little interesting bit. Own a company or a manager at work? This is also a great way to foster communication in the workplace. Not only can you use it to develop a better work environment, but you can take part in your own team building exercise to improve your dating game.

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Follow Alex's experiences in dating nice Russian girls at Hot Russian dating. Alex is also the author of Hot Russians dating scammers guide, essential reading for anyone interested in protecting themselves online.

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