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Asian Dating is about Persistence

By: Steve Eyes

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At an Asian Dating site, email rejection happens all the time. It is parallel to being rejected by someone you meet in a club. You walk up, say hi, sit down and make an effort to have a conversation but the person is not interested. You pick up on the negative clues, say goodbye and stagger away.

In the Asian Dating world when you send a person an email and they don't respond, good chance they checked out your profile and for whatever reason it did not hit an emotional chord and they decided not to reply to your email. Basically you have been rejected by them not responding to your email.

Granted, there is always a possibility your email got misplaced in cyberspace, so sending a following email after not receiving a reply in a week seems realistic, But if you do not get a response to your second email, time to move on. You might also choose to take this as a hint to take a glance at your profile and make sure it is completed and provides sufficient interest for someone to respond to your emails. Think of your profile as your love resume.

I'm trying to stay gender unbiased but to be honest, email rejection is more of a lady approach than a male method. If for any reason, because men usually initiate the email. Most men think their picture was the reason for the rejection, but don't be so quick to think this was the reason, especially when it comes to Asian ladies. Women from Asia look at male profiles more closely than your picture. They want to understand if you are a man worth investing their time with, particularly if the lady is getting tons of male callers and she does not have time to fritter away. If your profile is only a picture and a few words, she might move on thinking if you can't take the time to fill out your profile sufficiently, you may not take the time to fully invest in the relationship . Moreover, she possibly has more than one male member emailing her so why squander her time on someone who says three words with a fuzzy picture.

There is always an exception to everything. I know members who did not get a response from their email until weeks later and now are blissful couples. For the most part Asian ladies do not own a computer. They either rely on a computer at work or they go off to an internet café to rent a computer. If an internet café is there only option, they may only be able to afford to go once or twice a month. If that is the case, your email might not of been rejected, but instead time and money is keeping the lady from immediately responding.

Ladies that are besieged with emails might not be rejecting you as much as finding time to answer all her admirers. That happen to me personally. My wife would get hundreds of emails from male callers. She had a filtering technique and immediately eliminated emails that were trying to buy her rather than court her. If your profile had a small number of words and no picture, eliminated. If your profile had a small amount of words with a picture but it did not stand out, eliminated. If your profile had countless words and no picture, eliminated. If your profile was interesting, but not overwhelming, and a clear picture she responded. Fortunate me, she responded.

I know it is difficult not to take rejection personally, but it is part of courting and finding a mate. Everyone gets rejected at one time or another, but the persistent searcher for love keeps searching for the one that is destined to be their mate. Never give up.

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