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Asian Dating is a Confidence Builder

By: Steve Eyes

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Most of us have diverse levels of confidence. I’m sure you have met a variety of confident types. I’m just as certain, that all of us have had our own confidence shaken once or twice. I know I have.

In relationships most of us have distinct degrees of confidence. There were times I felt like I could do no wrong and other times I couldn’t do anything right. The ups and downs of relationships are still a mystery to me. I don’t have all the answers, but most of us have in common some the similar feelings: the anticipation when you see someone you can’t take your eyes off of; the eagerness of being on a first date; the moment when you kiss; the bliss of love; and also: the smack when someone says no; the despair when someone walks away, the emptiness when someone you love cheats on you and so on. We all have been their.

What happens once the worse has happen to you. I can give you a glimpse of the male’s perspective. You are in love. She is everything you could desire. She’s gorgeous, sexy, and makes you feel alive. You can’t wait to be with her or close to her. You are on top of the world and life couldn’t be better. Afterward she walks away. No quantity of begging will get her back. The signs of her leaving were almost certainly there, but you were too in love to see them. You cry, you drink, cry some more and the emptiness won’t go away. You are lost.

Then there is the guy who drinks a case a beer, cries for a night, says the hell with it afterward parties the next night. This over enthusiastic soul creates such a whirlwind he leaves himself no time to mourn or to contemplate his state of loss. When he crashes, his recovery is generally a tough road.

For me, the old saying that time heals, had value. I had no yearning to go clubbing. I was lonely, still anguished and didn’t have the confidence to get back in to the dating world again. As time went on, I found a relaxing, yet boring routine. I wanted to date again, but the thought of it would give me flash backs of unpleasant moments. Sigh, loneliness was becoming my comrade.

Online dating was something I heard about and decided to test it out. I was tired of watching reruns on tv. It didn’t take long to search out the many dating sites available on the net. I searched, researched, and joined. I was gradually and happily getting involved again. I could rest at home in my sweats, communicate with ladies online, and not have to confront a crowd in a smoky bar room if a lady said “no”. Yet, the no’s were uncommon online. This was not a face to face ritual, but me on my keyboard and her on her keyboard that gave us both the wanted space to get acquainted. It was fun, soothing and a confidence vaccination. Yes, I’ll say it again, a confidence vaccination.

How can online dating boost your confidence versus conventional dating? It has to do with vulnerability. Think about it. If you just lost your confidence, would you rather face a lady in a crowd of others, or at home while using MSN chat or email. After a huge letdown, most of us struggle with the idea of going out in the insensitive dating world were appearance is premium versus the strength of words and feelings you converse online. Whatever your state of psyche may be at that moment, you can find another person online feeling as you do. That’s hard to come across in a smoky bar room under the effect of alcohol.

Ultimately my confidence did return to an ample level to venture out to the dance clubs. I had online dating to thank for that. For a while, I was playing in both worlds and saw some stark difference in what was real and what was not. Both have their pitfalls, but ultimately I realized that the typical dating world had many more masks and traps that was not there in the online world. That’s another article. For now, I just want to say if you have misplaced your confidence because of a relationship calamity, give your self time to reconcile and see if you can find yourself again by joining a good online dating site. I guarantee you will find your confidence once more and if you are lucky, like me, you will find the love of your life.

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