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Asian Dating Love Discrimination

By: Steve Eyes

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Why is it people, particularly the media, thinks that looking for love on the internet is reprehensible? The prejudice is particularly evident if you are looking for a foreign bride. I met my wife, Eileen, who is Filipina, on the internet. The narrow-minded nay sayers like cataloging this media as “mail order bride”. They seem to believe these ladies are enslaved by Western men who are looking for a foreign wife. And if by chance a relationship of this sort does go sour, they use this as all-inclusive evidence that looking for love on the internet is ethically sinful.

There are more success stories then failures. But gossip isn’t news unless it is negative or controversial. There are thousands of happy couples who found each other on the internet, but this will not make the news nor the Maury Povich show (I recollect many years ago how Muray tried to disparage a man and his Filipina wife who met on the internet even with their obvious love for each other.

Let me use the Philippines as my bases for dialogue. These ladies are not forced to do anything they don’t want to do. The squabble is these ladies are so underprivileged they will do anything to get out of their country. Let me agree with this statement to a extent. The fact that a lady is looking for a relationship to improve her status is not definite to the Philippine culture. I haven’t met many American women who are prepared to get involved in a relationship if it doesn’t enhance her status. Consequently, this view is based typically on hypocrisy and prejudice. Most women, no matter their civilization, hope to meet a man who improves their standard of living.

Most ladies from the Philippines aren’t concerned about a man’s looks. Obviously, she needs him to be clean, but his behavior is far more important then his looks. In her country she is treated as a second class citizen. She is in search of something or someone who will show respect and gratitude for her efforts to be the lady of the house. In her country, these efforts are demanded with little admiration. She simply wants to be respected, cared for and appreciated for who she is. She is a woman who is full of love – not a piece of goods.

You regularly hear that these ladies are meek. My Filipina Lady has her own mind and if she wants to fulfil me in any way, she does so out of love, appreciation and aspiration. In turn, I do for her with gratitude, love and appreciation. It’s a preference, not a mandate.

It’s this chemistry that typically attracts men to a Filipina lady. They are not looking for a submissive wife any more then these ladies are looking for immense wealth. What some Western men don’t want is a tug of war involving the sexes. The straightforwardness of a woman and man’s love not having to compete or be threatened by equality issues is refreshing. The label we use to explain this desire is “looking for a lady with traditional values.” In our world the impartiality is wanting to be who you are, not what society thinks you should be.

There is a bottom line to all this - the couple involved. If they are delighted and found love, why should we care how they found it. With America’s divorce rate as excessive as it is, there is no proof that conventional courtship is a better way to look for love. I say, if you find love, it should be celebrated rather then trying to dishearten the vehicle that helped you find that ecstasy.

If you want to explore for and find love on the internet do it with honor and leave the shame to those who rather look for deficiency rather then the hope we ask for in our search for love.

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