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Asian Dating Discrimination

By: Steve Eyes

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Any gentleman who has dated Asian ladies who dwell in the United States, has witness the wrath, jealously and unfairness of American women towards Asian ladies. I know I have, as have many of my friends. The stereotypical has some merit: American women can’t vie against the Asians’ sexuality, American women feel threaten and some American women plainly think Asians are stealing their men. These all bear some legitimacy.

My experience is first hand. I dated many Asian ladies and have heard the comments. If we spend time at a typical American club, I have had my dates intimidate by American women in the restroom. In time, Asian clubs sprung up in the United States. At an Asian club, American women are welcome. I have never seen an American lady being threaten by Asians in a typical Asian club. It just isn’t their temperament. The crowd in these clubs are typically Asian ladies and American men.

There are many Asian ladies in the U.S., particularly from the Philippines. A lot of these ladies arrived via meeting an American G.I. I actually don’t know the percentage, but there is no doubt that most Filipina ladies have a military association in some way. They met in the Philippines, got married, and came to the United States with their military spouse. Consequently, you’ll meet Asian ladies in clubs who are married. If you intermingle with Asian ladies that spend time at the clubs for any length of time, you will in time meet ladies who are unfaithful. This infidelity is how Filipina ladies are branded as whores by American women. This doesn’t carry the same shame for American women who may do the same. Hypocrisy is always obvious when behaviors of the two cultures are compared.
What the American GI has exposed is now catching on with non-military men. Asian dating sites have sprung up all over the internet. Some of these sites try to ill-use the Asians’ sexuality. However, there are many Asian ladies who want to encounter a sincere gentlemen for a relationship. As attractive as Asian ladies may be, American men are also mesmerized by the Asians’ behavior towards men. A man’s dream of having a wife who wants to please him, appreciates his love and treasures his efforts in making a home seems to have been found by American men in the Asian culture. You’ll hear American men call these ideals “traditional values” because at one time these were the standards that held the American family together.

The worn-out argument about these women being a servant to their husband, is one sided. Do these women like serving their husband? Yes, most do. But not as slaves. They are not forced to do so, but have the desire to please their man out of gratitude and love. These ladies are doing what they want to do. I repeat, they WANT to please their man, do things for him and show their appreciation. In turn, these men are happy, want to provide for their wife and have no aspiration to look somewhere else for this appreciation. It’s chemistry that previously prevailed many years ago in the United States and has been mislaid in the myriad of women rights in American society.

Why do Filipina women want to marry a foreigner from another country? I’m not going to disagree the fact that these ladies want a better life. It’s probably spot on. I will dispute that most women, no matter the country, desire to marry in to a better life. Again, it is the hypocrisy of who you are that makes a behavior negative or not. Most women, in the United States, ought to look in a mirror before judging ladies from other cultures. Above and beyond wanting a improved life, most Asian ladies want better treatment. In a Filipina lady’s eyes, men from the West care for women better then men from their country. Is there truthfulness to this? The feed back I get from the ladies at my website is yes or at least they perceive it to be so. I’m sure the social status of your family makes a difference of how you are treated in spite of of your gender, but I’m talking about the normal Filipina lady. The difference is simple. In her country what she does for her man or husband is expected without appreciation. Here in the United States, most men come to expect a lady isn’t mandatory to serve him, to want to please him, and love him for who he is. When an Asian lady does, his appreciation is sure. For an Asian lady, the man doesn’t have to be super rich or come across like a movie star, just treat her well and confirm his love. It’s a merry-go-round with respect and love as it’s central point. She wishes to please him, he loves her for pleasing him, she loves him for showing he appreciates her love and so on.

All the above words, statements and my remarks have their exceptions. There is no doubt, there are terrible men in every country. There is no doubt that various women only are in it for the money or to get a free pass to the United States. These are the exceptions and it is this minority that the media and others will use to layer a whole culture in a disapproving light. I’m sure a good number of you have seen in print or on the news about “mail order bride” scandals or “mail order bride” exploitation as if this defines all courtships and marriages that mature through the internet. If a a small amount of instances defines the values, then just getting a marriage license in the United States should have a warning imprinted in gold. No matter if a couple met through the internet or at the neighborhood church, you have your share of scandals and exploitation. The last culture of experts that needs to be giving advise about how to meet up and marry a women is the United States – is there any other country whose divorce grade is higher?

I started this article to comment on why a lot of American women look down on Asian women. Not all American women, but a lot. But the bias doesn’t stop there. It is evident in the media, politics and definitely in their own country. The people who are forgotten, are the couples themselves. Why not just ask them? If two people who found each other are happy, in love and want to be together, why does the media and politician think they know better. More then likely, it isn’t about what the couple want, but more about politics and sensationalism to sell news. Take your disgust, your narrow minded views and negative publicity elsewhere and let us find love – even if we get it on the internet.

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