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How To Pick Up Girls - 3 Easy Tips

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The art of seduction is nothing new. For a long time now many people assumed that some of us were just born with a gift, a gift to seduce women. There is some truth in that....some are naturally better at attracting women than others. At the same time, the art of seduction can be learned and it is NOT hard. In fact, its so easy to pick up that many people have started to make a hobby of it. I'm sure there is that nasty voice in the back of your head telling you that you will never be good enough or that you need good looks, money, and fame to impress women.

BUT YOU'RE WRONG!

While things like money and fame do impress women the're are lots of other ways to attract beautiful women. Women are biologically wired to be attracted to the alpha male of the group. Alpha males are guys who are the leader of their tribe so to speak. Some general characteristics would include dominance, authority and social competance. Most guys think that women are attracted to rich men because of their wealth which is completely UNTRUE! Women are attracted to wealthy men because of the POWER they hold.

While you may not be a Fortune 500 CEO you can still display powerful traits by showing power in your own bubble. If you work at a Burger King then display power over the people underneath you. I'm not saying to be a jerk (although that works) I'm merely saying that you should excersize your authority when the time comes. Don't go around making everyone mad and making demands, but you should be assertive and dominant. Never be the one who is waiting for someone else to make a decision. Women are attracted to those who MAKE the decisions no the ones who follow them.

Another trait women are very attracted to is called social competance. Social competance means being a person who is very suave in all social situations. Sometimes you see guys who say something and women tend to look away and break eye contact. You can FEEL the akward situation...these are the things that alpha males never do. They always keep a fun vibe and make sure everyone feels good around them. This is something that comes with a lot of practice and socialization. It's not picked up overnight but you can work at it become very good at it.

Always be touching. If you can start touching her early in the conversation the more the better. When you are lightly touching you're setting the tone for a more intimate relationship. Fair warning, you need to start off slow and build up. You should start with a light shoulder touch (make sure it seems casual) and work your way up. Women generally will not allow you to escelate in public because that tends to make them feel sluttly so save the more intimate touching for a private gathering.

Once again, you have to remember that there is no need to have money, good looks, or be a fortune 500 CEO to pick up girls. it's all about learning how to become more alpha in your life. Women are HARD-WIRED to be attracted to the alpha male and you can use this to your advantage. You see, our brain and emotional system is actually hard-wired for pre-historic times. Evolution has not kept up with the change of society. Women are still attracted to guys who represent safety and high survival value.

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